WHY BOYS CRY!!!!

She can kill with a smile, she can wound through her eyes, she can ruin your faith with her casual lies. She only reveals what she wants you to see…..She hides like a child but she’s always a woman to me…….

You know its funny but most girls dream of men that are strong, independent, have a voice and are also slightly in touch with their emotional side. Well atleast I think that’s what they desire….but lets say for once they do…..

Men like these are not only rare and difficult to find but are also more prone to getting hurt and not being able to move on. My next few lines is about someone like that, its not just about the struggle this individual faces with love, emotions, family, friends but also about the journey that goes through a lot of rough weathers. Its story of a Captain that struggles his way through an ocean alone…… an ocean that seems to never end, an ocean that reaps the story of revenge, an ocean that knows to throw a storm, an ocean that spells the word… Its WRONG!!!

Having grown up with the boys most of the time, the boy seeks love at every stage of his life. Whether it’s from family, friends, the cute neighbour that he has a crush on or someone that he just happened to bump into. Grounded by his beliefs in the almighty and seeking moments of happiness in the smallest of things he does, the boy grows to become a man as he struggles his way through the corporate world. While honesty and trust are the key things that drive this mans belief he never fails to ever disappoint anyone who ever asks for it. He seeks similar values in the friends that he makes, he seeks similar values in the relationships he makes.

He dreams like there is no tomorrow, he believes in those dreams like there is no tomorrow. He falls in love never to rise again, he falls in love only because he doesn’t understand the game. A game that the world plays at every moment of life, a game that some of his relationships play as if they rolled a die. He seeks words of his wisdom from his friends he trusts, he seeks the answers to the questions that spring up. He fights the world, he fights the drive……. to let go and live like the eagles fly. But he doesn’t realize he is an emotional fool, love and care are the words that describe this romantic fool.

But like every other story of life, there are troubles and our Captain seems to find his way back all the time. He believes in the god of cupid more than once, only to realize that St Cupid comes in a year only once. His challenges trigger emotions that hide inside, his challenges trigger feelings that he subsides. His challenges arise from within, his challenges arise from the partners he gives in, his challenges arise from the people he looks upto, his challenges arise when ‘THEY’ fail to arrive.

I am scared this man will fall, I am scared this man will break the emotional wall. I am scared he’ll begin to believe, that dreams and emotions are only words of the wheel. The wheel that turns his life, The wheel that soaks the emotions dry.

As I write these words, I only pray to give the man the strength and the courage to turn his life. As tears roll down my eyes, I wonder, WHY BOYS CRY!